The "three months' salary" rule is a topic that always comes up when discussing engagement ring budgets. This guideline actually originated from old advertising campaigns, and today it's more common to choose a budget that feels right for both partners. Let's look at how to settle on a budget that's neither overstretched nor overly compromised.

Today's Market Rates

Engagement rings featured on dot Bridal vary widely in price depending on the brand and design, but more couples are choosing options within a comfortable range. You can check how price ranges compare across brands in our brand comparison table. Market averages are just a reference point—what matters most is finding an amount both of you feel good about exchanging.

Factors That Affect Price

  • Diamond grade (the 4Cs) and carat (size)
  • Metal type (platinum or gold)
  • Design complexity and the amount of melee diamonds

Price depends on where you choose to prioritize. If sparkle matters most, focus on the cut; if presence matters most, focus on size. Deciding your priorities in advance makes choosing much easier.

How to Set Your Budget

Deciding on a total budget first and choosing within that range helps avoid indecision. If quality is your priority, our guide to choosing diamonds may also help.

Tips for Keeping Costs Down

You can adjust while still keeping satisfaction high—for example, slightly lowering grades that are hard to notice with the naked eye, or opting for a simpler design. Browse specific designs in our engagement ring collection, and check them in person at one of our partner stores.