August is a popular month for couples to hold the formal meeting between both families, taking advantage of Obon homecomings and long holidays. But when it comes time to actually prepare...
"Do we need engagement and wedding rings for the family meeting?"
"We haven't decided on our engagement or wedding rings yet — is that okay?"
It's completely natural to have these kinds of questions and worries. Let's talk about the role engagement and wedding rings play at the family meeting, and the right timing for preparing them.
Engagement and wedding rings aren't "required" for the family meeting — but here's why having them can help
To get straight to the point, engagement and wedding rings are not a "must-have item" for the family meeting. However, depending on the situation and how you explain things, having them can help conversations flow naturally and leave a good impression.
■Benefits of having engagement/wedding rings
・You can show them as "proof" of your proposal or engagement
・Conversation naturally flows around topics like "What kind of rings did you choose?"
・It can help reassure and put your families at ease
■It's perfectly fine even without engagement/wedding rings!
・Simply saying "We're planning to choose them together from here" works great
・If you're using semi-order or the rings are still being made, it's fine to say "They're currently being made, and we'll show you once they're complete"
・In fact, an attitude of "we want to take our time choosing together" can leave a positive impression!
If you want your rings ready in time, consider a semi-order option
"We want them ready in time for the family meeting, but a full custom order might not make it..."
In cases like this, semi-order engagement and wedding rings are a great option.
■With semi-order
・You can still choose the design and materials, with a shorter production time (about 4 weeks or more)
・Pricing is clear and easy to understand, making it simple to set a budget together
Bridal jewelry specialty stores can be found all across Japan. Even while visiting family, you can consult with a store or go see the rings in person.
Whether you need engagement and wedding rings for the family meeting isn't an "absolute" — it depends on your situation. Having them can be reassuring, but even without them, sharing your feelings and intentions sincerely will surely come through to your families.